Sometimes we are the last to know what the rest of our family believes they see about us from how we behave.

She was in a position where they were manipulating her to feel as much as possible for as many guys as possible.

Didn't she not say I love you to either of the final two as she didn't know who she was choosing? Or did I completely mis-read that.

As to many guys thinking they are {reverb}The One{/reverb} they are first off in a competition where believing you are {reverb}The One{/reverb} is much more likely to get you to the end than if you think you have no chance at all. I'm sure the producers manipulate the ones being chosen so as many of them think they really have a shot.

I mean how many of these shows do we get to the end where one person was never kissed, never shown any real affection, and knows that from day one they had absolutely no chance at all both from what they felt and all the evidence that was presented to them and is not-at-all surprised and is relieved that they chose the other person. The game is not set up for people to be certain that someone else is {reverb}The One{/reverb} and they have no chance.

I don't think it is possible within the confines of these dating shows to not lead people on. Even if you try not to, the situation is designed to have several people fall for the one doing the choosing and have the chooser as confused about their feelings for as long as possible.

Why should this installment be different.