Rhonda should be ashamed of herself. I don't think she's enlightened, healed or any of that now-a-days, into yourself, jibber jabber. She seems bitter and smart alecky. One good way to see if someone's conning you is to act like you're not buying what they're selling and see if they get mad at you. She takes advantage of people plain and simple. She was just in the right place at the right time and got to be on television for a couple of years and has used that to her own advantage. In my own opinion, this whole idea of reinventing your life and seeing things in a whole new light that will change you forever is something that gets wheeled out every other decade or so. If you "find yourself" you may be in for a big disappointment. Face it. For most people in this world life is mundane. Keep yourself busy so you won't sit and get depressed instead of trying to maintain a constantly optomistic mindset that doesn't naturally come to you, not to mention setting unreachable goals for yourself that ultimately send you into a downward spiral only to go staggering back to the self help section of the book store for a little hair of the dog that bit you.