I am not picking on them because they are gay or that they seem queeny.

To me they seem fake. They is something about the way they act and talk that seems forced, as if they have added an extra layer to thier normal selfs.

>What does a "real-world gay" act like?

Like a person! Most gays I have personally meet (a) I did not know them to be gay right away (first 5 minutes) unless they told me or I was told by someone else. And the very few who played it up so you knew within seconds of meeting them, did not ring with that sense of fakeness (instead it was clear they were enjoying themselves) that I am getting from Tom & Terry.

Tom & Terry come across like some salesmen I have met, at first they seem like great people to be talking to, but the more time I spend with them the more the sense of wrongness builds up. I can't point to any one thing and say this is clearly wrong, but the whole is not the sum of it's parts.

Do you get what I mean?