What's worse than that, Ms. Iyanla (I love calling her that) didn't ask Jodi if she wanted a hug, she TOLD her. Remember when they were standing there and Iyanla instructed her on how to accept her mighty bosom..I just about fell outta my chair..I was like WTF!! Did she just tell that grown woman not to hug her back but to allow her to be embraced? That was way over the line to me as well. OK, so we know Jodi has control issues and all that but it reminds me of when I take my dog to the park and I watch all the dogs. Some dogs are more dominant than others. The more submissive dogs literally have to stand there while the more dominant dogs mount them as a show of dominance. I'm sorry if this analogy seems a little crass to some but given Jodi's issues and Iyanla's motherin'mission, it's hard it ignore. Iyanla was basically saying, stand there and let me dominate you and don't say anything, don't have a reaction, just take it. Fall into my mighty bosom and submit! What kinda crazy crap is Iyanla trying to play out with these women?!?

And another thing, who remembers Jennifer from last season? Iyanla straight up accosted her during Group one day. Jennifer was supposed to be walking towards Iyanla for something, I forget what, next thing you know, Iyanla was swooping her up like a mother bird gathering up her young. Now, she had supposedly had just met this girl Jennifer. Not to be satisfied with this, she upped her classic move by actually cradling Jennifer in her lap and rocking her while stroking her hair..Correct me if I am wrong, but was Jennifer not a grown woman? Iyanla is out of control!