I'm glad you pointed this out. Although I love the show, and think Matt is generally good guy, I agree with what you said about how he views the women.
Matt has definitely been very nice to everyone. He really tries to get along with everyone, encourage them, etc, and is even nice to Hutch, even though he hates him. However, I wanted to hit him during that last episode when the former castmates were all asking the questions. When Dr. Pat asked who they would have played with as a child, Matt said something to the effect of "My horny inner child probably would have played with Molly." Now, a lot of guys out there would probably be thinking that, but who in their right mind says it out loud?? If you're trying to get a virgin to vote for you, how smart is is to tell her and everyone else in the room that you're horny for her?
I do think that nice as he is to everyone, he really doesn't show a lot of respect for the women.