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I'm not sure but through process of elimination, I think it is between Allison and Lisa. Jill will be there awhile simply because of how long it takes to lose a noticible amount of weight. TJ, although my favorite houseguest, is very complex. Therefore, it with take a bit of time to smooth things out. LOVE her! Dhristine is amazing, but again, a time consuming transition. I hope we get to meet her son before it's all over. Jessica is a mess and will be there foor the long run.

That leaves Lisa and Allison. Their issues are as big and important as the others but not much progress can be seen while still in the house. They need to reclaim their lives--start living!

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I disagree. I don't think that Lisa will graduate at all. I think she will get her sorry a$$ booted out of the house before that ever happens.

Read on another site (by someone who claimed to know) that Allison time there was 3-4 wks.

What other site do you guys know about, I would love to know. I think that TJ is going to be the first to Graduate. Her issues are the most actualized and able to be measured. Her husband must be amazing, I wonder if he has a brother! Thanks

I think Jessica will be the first to graduate. She will stay emotional for awhile because she will continue to miss her mother, but I think she'll be ready to get back out to real life first. On another note, they should either boot Lisa out or confront her on her ridiculous behavior with her housemates (especially the invasion of privacy stuff with Christina).

I'd like to see Jessica graduate first simply because I think she snookered the producers into believing her big issue was her mother's death.

But I can see Jill leaving first, not graduating necessarily, but more for health reasons.

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If Jessica graduates any time soon, it will be a PR thing. That girl has major issues. If she were to graduate after going through a process that would truly help her move forward, she'd have to be there for some time.

Allison is looking like the most likely to graduate first.

since they all got a "c" together maybe they will all graduate together.

I think Jessica is doing so well. Lisa is a joke, I can't stand her. Jill really hasn't convinced me that she should even be there. I think IF Christina is real then she is going to become an incredible person. I just hope she is not "hustling" the SO house.

My process of elimination…

If information is correct and Allison is only there for four weeks, then I guess it will be her. Otherwise I think it will be one of Rhonda's, because she tends to graduate hers quicker. Jessica is still struggling with her first two steps. Lisa has “regressed” in Rhonda’s words; and if she keeps up with her antics, she should be kicked out rather than graduated in my opinion. So… that leaves TJ, who appears to be breezing through her steps. Although she is struggling with “giving up control,” she seems to be approaching her last step “embracing intimacy.” All of Iyanla’s ladies are still be working on their first two steps as far as I can tell. Oddly Jill and Lisa have five steps toward their goals while the others only have four.

Through process of elimination I vote TJ, but I’ll miss her tenacity and enthusiasm.

Message in a Bottle: Desiderata ~ Max Ehrmann

I think Christina will be the first to graduate. She seems to get it more than the others do. She seems to be more cooperative with the life coaches too. Her issue is not that big really. She just has to make peace with her feelings about her dad...and she's already stopped escorting. They'll send her home to her family soon...and her whole town will be talking about her lol

I'm guessing TJ, she is the one who is working the most and the hardest, but I'm guessing hubby will pay a visit before they graduate her.

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as much as I would like it to be Allison, I think the first graduate will be Jessica b/c of the amount of time and camera attention Jessica is getting.

I think it will be Jessica. You can only mourn for so long and then you move through the other stages of grief. Now if they bring in the problem of her father's remarriage...it might be longer. Remember Maureen didnt stay that long. Rhonda gave her the tools and then SO gave her the boot