Well, I was so disgusted after seeing today’s show and the angry demeanor of Iyanla towards TJ and Jill. The pain in TJ’s face was so sad to watch when she was picked on. It seems to me that its possible that Allison complained to Iyanla about TJ and Jill and probably hopes they are asked to leave the house immediately.
The smirks from Christina and Jessica and the catiness of Jill will be imprinted on the tapes if Iyanla ever takes the time to watch the show.
I vote that Iyanla be graded with an “F” and asked to leave the house immediately.
I agree. I keep using the word "disturbing," but that's what it was to me. I did read some text of the e-mail Jill was writing to her friend that called Allison fake. I have to assume that's really what got IV angry, when, in reality, the whole group of them gossiping, Christina, Allison and Jessica, is what is so destructive. So to have Iyanla come down so hard on Jill and J.T. was disgusting. It was made even worse with Allison's squawking about her birthday every minute - blech!
From the tone of this meeting and the direction it was headed, I absolutely do not blame T.J. for not wanting to be the whipping boy again and take all the blame.
Completely and totally mishandled.
>Well, I was so disgusted after
>seeing today’s show and the
>angry demeanor of Iyanla towards
>TJ and Jill.
I saw no such thing. IV looked as calm as she always does.
The pain
>in TJ’s face was so
>sad to watch when she
>was picked on.
>
TJ was not picked on. Jill had told IV that she didn't like Allison, that she thought Allison was fake, etc. IV said that Jill and TJ were gossiping about Allison behind her back and Jill AGREED. That's when IV called the session. That's why IV asked TJ specifically about gossiping about Allison. And TJ, coward that she is, refused to repeat what she's been saying! The only Sad thing on TJ's face was when instead of telling Allison to her face what she said behind her back, TJ began to immediately talk ABOUT HERSELF! On ad on and on, TJ made the whole session about how SHE feels, what SHE feels. She refused to talk about the subject t hand and treated the session as an opportunity to yak about HERself. Like she always does!
>It seems to me that its
>possible that Allison complained to
>Iyanla about TJ and Jill
>and probably hopes they are
>asked to leave the house
>immediately.
>
Nope. Jill brought it up by saying she didn't like Allison and that she and TJ talked about Allison behind her back instead of confronting her with whatever it was they didn't like about her.
>The smirks from Christina and Jessica
They were bored senseless by TJ yapping on and on and on and... about HERSELF and refusing to stop being a big coward and say who and what she gossiped about behind their backs! And TJ bored me, as well, watching her being a DAW instead of being Honest!
>and the catiness of Jill
How was Jill catty?
>will be imprinted on the
>tapes if Iyanla ever takes
>the time to watch the
>show.
>
I find it hard to believe the LCs don't watch tapes of the HGs!
>I vote that Iyanla be graded
>with an “F” and asked
>to leave the house immediately.
I vote IV a "C" for saying the HGs should talk Honestly to each other and leaving the room when it is obvious that none of them is Honest or coureageous enough to be Honest with each other.
But yet Alison can lie and not be considered a coward? Christine lied and isn't consdered a coward?
Both were asked point blank and both lied. Both have each talked about every housemate and not so nicely. Putting a smile on one's face doesn't make it right...it is still nasty gossip.
TJ is there for just the reason that were pointed out....but what excuses do these other ladies have for the vicious gossip of one another?
And why didn't IV address the point that TJ made: Alison isn't allowing me to be her accountablity partner yet will and does make me accountable?
Why? because once again IV has a fav, as she did last year with Rachel, who also got away with being a vicious gossip. Rchel is the mirror of Alision in that both were able to lie and get away wih it, gossip with smiles on their face, and did all they could to stay in the house as long as they could.