Rudy was/is? a cranky old codger who wanted to use the Bible as toilet paper. Don't know if he said that just to bug people, or he really meant that. So, on those lines, I say ANYONE who lived with him had to be a very special, patient person.The world will definitely be a sadder place without someone like her, who obviously took life with a lot of humor and salt, and made the best of it. Having not known her, I can only imagine.......