How much more contradicting can she be. She tells Christina stay away from her past. Now she has her possibly in line for her photos in a national magazine. Then during the belief session she told her,"I dont believe you can get a stripper off a pole." She may have well been Christina's dad. As I wrote before you can change. I know many girls that have. This girl could counsel others in her position, she is great on the computer. But now, she has a new belief. Inyalah gave her the belief that a dancer cant get off a pole. Sorry thats not true coaches. When talking about beliefs, rember what you say!

MS. G

• RE: Inyalah and beliefs,mylifeisunfolding, 05:26 AM, 11-12-05
  • RE: Inyalah and beliefs,Mrsrcjesg, 05:55 AM, 11-12-05

I think she was saying to Christina that this type of lifestyle can be hard to get away from if you don't change your mindset. Some women are seduced by the power they know they have over men and the enormous amount of money to be made along with the the attention they receive. It's obviously not positive attention but with low self esteem and dollar bills it can be a lethal combination. Christina can one day counsel others on the dangers of living this lifestyle but she FIRST has to realize she has to change her mentality which is what got in this position in the first place. Beliefs only become beliefs when you accept them to be true for you. Until then they are just someone elses opinion. Christina has learned due to her life to be very manipulative and how to play people around like a violin. Dr. Stan and Iyanla are seeing where she suckered them in as well. Mind you if she is so ready to change why was she so eager to show her housemates the pornographic poses of her past? Doesn't it occur to anybody on that show everything is taped and the computer sites they visit on the web, etc is monitored, phone calls as well and that the life coaches and Dr. Stan probably have to review everything because they are not at the house with the women 24/7. They have to tell them that from the door nothing is sacred or secret you gave that up when you came on the show.

Women are Power these days. Look at Martha Stewert. Money and the stock market are quit lethal too. Its not just in the sex industry. Its not just power over men. Its Power period. With Christina I believe she took this path is lack of esteem and lack of being in control of who she is. She made a wrong choice. Thats where cause and effect come in. What amount is the show making? What do the coaches make? They live well dear. Christina is a woman with honor even if still in the business. You have not been in her shoes. I danced for ten years at the age of 17 I began. I understand what this girl is feeling. But the coaches are severely hurting her. Just by being on the show has made this girl a PUBLIC FIGURE and if Larry Flynnt wants to publish them he will and HE CAN. There is no statue of limitations on that one. Distress or no distress. My fiance' founded Penthouse. Madonna could not get her photos back. My old man has a copy of the check and the release she signed when he bought the photos. Let me tell you this girl is being exploited. If I was her I would be on the phone with Gloria Alred, Amber Freys attorney and take on the show. They made her a PUBLIC FIGURE. Now she will have to pay a huge price and get nothing from it. Every one knows what she has done. They think the photos are bad? Why did they put her on TV and have her tell people what she did. Did they not think that the web site would not catch on? They are going to profit off this girl. Mens mags publish 3 months in advance. I feel very strong she will appear in one. I feel very bad for this young girl. She is nothing to them but RATINGS.

MS. G