Ok, don't bash me, just my opinion.
I think Wade seems like a wonderful person, but kinda came across as a dope b/c no matter how many times Erin gave him the 'there is no connection' vibe, he still didn't get it. I mean he was ready to give up the million for her, even though she didn't even want to kiss him.
Erin has been around the block a few times... okay full sprint around the world for years... she's too worldly for Wade. Wade is too decent for Erin. In that setting, just about anybody could come across as an idiot without much effort. He should just find himself a nice girl that hasn't been clubbing too much. He's the only one in both shows who left the door open if things don't work out.I'll give Erin this much, at least she gave Wade enough to know where he stood with her, it wasn't clear cut, but it was something. He nailed it on the steps after dinner, and Erin (as another poster said) made up a load of crap about what would his mother think.
After all of this, and all of the men she has kissed, she is just now thinking about that? All of the contestants have family, friends, people that they work with and communities that know them - is it a good thing that she didn't lie so well in that instance? Paradox.
Erin is like trying to piece together a jigsaw puzzle only half way through you realize that some pieces are missing and half of the pieces are from a completely different puzzle. Not worth the effort, too confusing and just a game that Erin.