I agree with you and far be it for me to play moderator but there is a discussion on the "Individual House Guest Forum" that will probably give you more information than you will get on this "general" forum.If this thread is closed, please share your feelings there.
I think that many consoder this a heart wrenching story and that all insights are welcomed in that thread.
Again, not trying to moderate your post, just lead you in a more appropriate direction.