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"This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by Bebo on 11-28-05 at 03:12 PM
LAST EDITED ON 11-29-05 AT 08:38 PM (EST)

These are all actual questions that have been in my inbox the past week. If you'd like for a question to be addressed in an upcoming Moderator Mailbag, please email or PM me - DO NOT POST IT ON THIS THREAD. I will not promise to respond to questions posted in this thread.

I'm also including links to some other useful threads:

Community Guidelines
A Word From a Moderator
From the Moderator Mailbag

Q: Are game threads permitted here?

A: Yup! If you want to post something funny that popped into your head based on the show, by all means do so. If you look at some of our other forums, you’ll see that there are plenty of games that take place quite regularly on these forums.

Q: How are people sending me emails and PMs attacking me for comments made on this site?

A: The email and PM icons are on the top right-hand corner of every post in unlocked threads, and other posters can use them to send emails and PMs through the site. No one has access to your email address unless you provide it to them – the messages are sent through survivorblows.com. Emails and PMs are subject to the same guidelines as message forum posts. If someone sends you an email or PM that violates the guidelines, then please forward a copy to the moderators so that we can address this. Abuse of the email or PM system has led to bannings in the past – we take that sort of abuse quite seriously.

Q: I had to create a new ID because my other one gave me an inactive user ID error. Could you please fix it so that I can log in?

A: In almost all cases, the reason that you’ve gotten this error is because you’ve been banned for guidelines violations. So, no. Oh, and don’t get attached to the new ID that you created to email in the question, because that one’s going to be deactivated too.

Q: I know I did some things I shouldn’t have, but I’ll be really really good from now on. Will you please reactivate my ID?

A: No.You had your chance to follow the guidelines. Besides, we don’t believe you that you’ve reformed. After all, one of the easiest ways to identify duplicate IDs is to look at who’s violating the guidelines. Typically, the folks who got banned and try to sneak back in fall back into the same behavior way too quickly.

Edited to clarify: I've gotten asked about how a poster can prove they've reformed so that he or she can come back. You can't. Once you're gone, you're gone. Go violate the guidelines on someone else's message forum - you wore out your welcome here.


Q: Why do you make such a big deal about duplicate threads? I don’t have time to read through what everyone else is saying.

A: Because of attitudes like yours. Sorry to burst your bubble, but your time is no more valuable than the time of the other posters on these forums. By making comments like that, you’re implying that people should be paying attention to your comments, but you’re dismissing the comments and existing discussions as if they are unworthy of anyone’s attention. If all you want is to post your comments and read the responses to your comments, I’d suggest starting a blog (www.blogger.com is an easy-to-use site). But if you’re going to post here, you’re going to follow the rules, out of courtesy to your fellow posters.

Q: Why do you permit bashing of contestants? Is it because it’s too hard to moderate or because you actually encourage it around here?

A: Tour around the site and see if you can figure out the answer. The names of the associated web sites in the top right-hand corner of the screen are a big hint.

Q: Why are you so mean?

A: Because even though many posters are making honest efforts to comply with the community guidelines, there are some incredibly rude and ungrateful posters on these forums.

Folks, the man who created the RTVW forums didn’t do it because it was his job, or because someone paid him to do it. He did it because he wanted to have a place to discuss reality television. Even though you see some ads on the site, for many years, he was putting his own money into this site so that folks would have a place to play. There are a number of long-time posters here who have made a similar commitment to this place, either volunteering their time and /or donating their money to defray some of those costs. All the webmaster asked for in return was adherence to a few basic rules. While most posters are willing to follow these rules, some posters have been extremely disrespectful of his efforts and feel like it’s their place to tear down what he’s put together and tear down the people who post here. That is extremely rude.

Just because BMP decided to divert people to this site, that doesn’t change what the intent of this site is and will not change its identity. There are over 70 forums discussing a variety of shows here, and the posters in each and every one of those forums are expected to follow the same rules. SO is not the center of the RTVW universe, and it never will be. Since the webmaster is the one paying the bills, he’s the one who defines what he wants this place to be, not you. If you want to play in his playground, you play by his rules. Simple enough.

So if I’m a bitch, it’s because I think certain posters should get off their high horses and show some gratitude for his efforts by respecting the rules of the forum. If you don’t want to follow them, then do all of us a favor and just go away. There are plenty of other places on the Internet to discuss reality television. Stop wasting everybody’s time if you don’t really want to be here. And even you really want to be here, show it by following the rules.


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Messages in this discussion
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by dabo on 11-29-05 at 02:36 PM
One of these days I really should find out on what channel and at what time this show is aired.

Oh, and bump.

Seasons Greetings!

"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by smokin on 11-29-05 at 02:57 PM
You have to have A LOT of spare time on your hands in order to follow Starting Over. It's an hour episode, five days a week. That's quite a committment...
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by EnfanTerrible on 11-30-05 at 05:51 PM
LAST EDITED ON 12-01-05 AT 01:08 AM (EST)

Not all of us, luv. I am one of those lucky folks able to make money doing something fun from the comfort of my home, with my TV on in the background.


"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by Dayum Yankee on 12-04-05 at 05:14 PM
I wanna do that again. Used to be a host for TalkCity back in the day and loved it; working from home in my pjs with a cup of coffee, a ciggerette and the tv in the background; that's the life - just get a sore butt and sore eyes if ya don't get up and stretch; lol
"Post in the correct forum, please"
Posted by Bebo on 11-30-05 at 05:45 PM
This is the General Discussion Forum. Please post here if:

- You are making a general comment about the show.
- You are making a comment about more than one houseguest.
- You are making a comment about one or more life coaches.

If you are starting a thread about one particular houseguest, then your comments belong in the Individual Houseguest forum. Please show consideration for your other posters by checking out the threads there - you'll most likely find there's already a discussion about the houseguest (and the specific topic) you'd like to discuss.


"Bump"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 12-01-05 at 05:27 PM
"Please remember..."
Posted by Bebo on 12-03-05 at 09:26 AM
This forum is for discussing the show. While we appreciate that posters have issues and concerns, this is not the appropriate forum for the discussions.

This is the General Discussion forum. Do not start threads on this forum about just one houseguest - that's what the Individual Houseguest forum is for.

Before you start a new thread, take a quick glance at the threads on the first page. Is someone posting similar comments to yours? Then join in their discussion.

Do you have technical questions about how to use the forums, change your profile, etc.? Please go to the Help Forum to ask those.


"RE: Please remember..."
Posted by truthhurtshuh2001 on 12-03-05 at 10:04 AM
i love starting over i cant wait to be on the show myself lol like i can get anymore help from any one of those hurting people i love the book hurting people hurt people
"RE: Please remember..."
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 12-03-05 at 09:52 PM
I hope that was a lengthy way of saying "Bump."
"Bump-de-bump-bump"
Posted by mysticwolf on 12-04-05 at 05:37 PM

Bad Wolf! by PM
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by tvgal on 12-05-05 at 06:46 AM
Bebo, let me reply to what YOU said!
Bravo for you! I think the mods here do a fantastic job and yet it is a thankless one. The rules here are basically the same as at any other decently run board. I have always been astounded at how some posters think you owe them something. So keep up the good work.
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by Loohoo43 on 01-15-06 at 06:17 PM
TVGal I agree with you whole heartedly that the Moderator's Job is thankless.
Loo
"Bumpidty Bump"
Posted by universityofkentuckyrocks on 12-07-05 at 05:58 PM
"bump"
Posted by Snidget on 12-08-05 at 06:37 PM
back up to the top
"Bumpity Bump Bump"
Posted by Snidget on 12-11-05 at 08:00 AM
"Bumpidity Bump"
Posted by universityofkentuckyrocks on 12-12-05 at 07:04 PM
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by jmama on 12-13-05 at 01:54 PM
Thank you so much for this post.I'm glad you make an effort to keep this site "real". Some people around here are just plain mean and I'm thankful you don't let that happen.So thanks again and keep up the good work.
"Bump"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 12-15-05 at 09:06 AM
"RE: Bump"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 12-16-05 at 09:59 AM
Which (he explains for the 400th time) is a post that moves a thread to the top of the first page. It's discouraged for regular discussion threads, but encouraged for strictly admin (like this one) or informational (like the SO Links) threads.

And any thread you reply to is moved to the top of the first page, so please search the first several pages of the forum and see if someone else has created a topic like that you want to post on. Otherwise, your thread stands a much better chance of being locked as a duplicate.

"RE: Bump"
Posted by sharnina on 01-27-06 at 01:36 PM
Thanks for the explanation. I've been trying to figure it out without asking and there is no info on this in the help forum.

Now I get it...soooo...

BUMP

"Bump"
Posted by mysticwolf on 12-17-05 at 03:53 PM

Bad Wolf! by PM
"Bumping"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 12-20-05 at 11:56 AM
In the desperate hope that someone actually READS it!
"RE: Bumping"
Posted by OklaBlue on 01-26-06 at 10:43 PM
bump
"da-bump"
Posted by Snidget on 12-21-05 at 06:36 AM
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by dragonflies on 12-22-05 at 09:30 PM
Since there seems to be a rash of locked threads, here is a bump.

"bump"
Posted by Snidget on 12-25-05 at 02:11 AM
"RE: bump"
Posted by Snidget on 12-29-05 at 07:40 AM
"bump"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 01-02-06 at 01:06 PM
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by Bebo on 01-04-06 at 09:38 PM
We're getting a lot of duplicates/wrong forum posts - this needs to go back on page 1.

"Bump"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 01-13-06 at 00:46 AM
"RE: Bump"
Posted by Snidget on 01-18-06 at 01:51 PM
"RE: Bump"
Posted by Snidget on 01-19-06 at 02:04 PM
"RE: Bump"
Posted by Snidget on 01-20-06 at 07:32 PM
"RE: Bump"
Posted by Snidget on 01-23-06 at 09:55 AM
"RE: Bump"
Posted by OklaBlue on 01-24-06 at 01:40 AM
LOL
"bump"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 01-25-06 at 02:28 AM
"RE: bump"
Posted by Snidget on 01-26-06 at 09:41 AM
"Bump"
Posted by universityofkentuckyrocks on 01-28-06 at 11:22 AM
"RE: Bump"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 01-31-06 at 01:25 PM
"RE: Bump"
Posted by Snidget on 02-04-06 at 08:01 AM
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by mysticwolf on 02-02-06 at 02:16 AM
bump


Sigs by Bob, entirely accurate renditions of nature

"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by Snidget on 02-05-06 at 03:07 PM
bump
"bump"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 02-07-06 at 11:45 AM
"RE: bump"
Posted by Snidget on 02-09-06 at 01:49 PM
"RE: bump"
Posted by sharnina on 02-13-06 at 04:01 AM
Bumpy - I used to have a rabbit named Bumpy because when he hopped he went. "bumpy, bumpy, bumpy..." Silly, huh?

Anyway --BUMP and yes I shouted.

"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by sharnina on 02-14-06 at 00:55 AM
Bump
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by sharnina on 02-15-06 at 12:08 PM
Bump
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by sharnina on 02-16-06 at 01:49 PM
BUMP
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by sharnina on 02-16-06 at 10:03 PM
bump
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by sharnina on 02-18-06 at 03:15 AM
Bump
"bump"
Posted by Cygnus X1 on 02-23-06 at 10:53 PM
"RE: This Week's Moderator Mailbag"
Posted by sharnina on 03-09-06 at 07:28 PM
bump