my wife and i have been married 28 yrs she was 14 i was 18 she has been threw hellher parents s\were divorced she was sexually abbused by her grandfatherand others i guess u can say me to my father died wheni was 8 and my mother was an alcoholici treated her very bad when we we first married we have 3 children that are grown she has never had abreak her whole life we started doing drugs meth and cocaine we were on it over ten years we both qoit 9 yeaars ago but have talking about doing it again i ruined her life made a mess of our childrens lifes she can so much more i cant make her happy i am now disabled she has worked 3 jobs she just lost her mother step father and my mother in 2 monthswe never went on a vacation and the hole time we have been married she never went to a beutay prlor had her hair done or her nails when i am in pain i yell at her for no reasoni no that if she got help like in the starting over house i would lose her but she deserves at least 1 break in her lifei amso sorry for ruining her life there is no place to get help here and she wodnt go and spend the money i love her so much i see she is so tired she was so beutifull i was so selfish

• RE: married at 14,Snidget, 12:56 PM, 01-24-06

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