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"RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by Sagebrush Dan on 07-03-17 at 11:43 PM
JBug announced that her husband died after a protracted illness. All our blessings and prayers are with her.


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"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by cahaya on 07-04-17 at 00:33 AM
Aw, jbug. You shared a lot of what you went through with your hubby with us. You're a noble lady. My thoughts and my heart and our shared blessings be with you.


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"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by jbug on 07-23-17 at 01:25 PM
Thank you. I hope anything I shared has made all of you more aware of Parkison's Disease and the battle those who have it have to fight daily.
"*Heart*"
Posted by foonermints on 07-04-17 at 09:04 AM

"RE: *Heart*"
Posted by jbug on 07-23-17 at 01:25 PM
thank you Fooner...
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by kingfish on 07-04-17 at 01:56 PM
LAST EDITED ON 07-04-17 AT 03:57 PM (EST)

So sorry to hear.

He has been and always will remain a part of our lives thanks to you, but I guess it was time for him to go on to further adventures.

Rest in Peace, Jerry.

"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by jbug on 07-23-17 at 01:26 PM
Thanks Kingfish. I wasn't ready for him to go on. Guess I never would have been tho.
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by kingfish on 07-24-17 at 10:36 AM
No, we never are. Hang in there buddy, you have a lot of shoulders available for comfort.
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by jbug on 07-24-17 at 06:27 PM
yes, I do.
**smooch**
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by newsomewayne on 07-05-17 at 10:16 AM
2 Corinthians 5:8

God bless you, Jbug. I'm sorry for the loss of your husband.

"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by jbug on 07-23-17 at 01:28 PM
Thank you Newsome. I've looked up a few scriptures lately.
It helps.

Haven't heard from you or seen you around in seems like forever.

"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by jbug on 07-23-17 at 01:24 PM
Like this Bug, my life is upside down now.
First time I've popped in here since. Thanks for your prayers and love. He struggled and fought Parkinson's with everything he had.
I miss him so very much.


"A Loving Relationship"
Posted by foonermints on 07-29-17 at 08:29 AM
I would be in total collapse!
Generally, I am so ornery it's a miracle I found another person in the first place.
Hopefully you have friends to take care of you.



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"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by tallgirl on 07-27-17 at 11:26 AM
I'm so sorry. My condolences to you and your family.

I know it's never easy. This is my first time checking in, in months. I've had my father, exactly a month later my favorite uncle and then my 18 year old cat die. We go on and do the best we can.

"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by cahaya on 07-27-17 at 04:36 PM
Good to see you drop in, tallgirl.


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Posted by foonermints on 08-03-17 at 12:08 PM
My girlfriend's ex-husband is going through chemotherapy right now. She has decided to move back in with him (as much as she can) to be his primary caregiver (she's a RN).
It's difficult when we lose our loved ones, including our lifetime companion animals.
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by foonermints on 08-04-17 at 01:56 PM
*Bump*
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by jbug on 08-09-17 at 10:48 PM
Does this mean you were thinking of me? **smoochie**

I'm coping pretty well I think. The house is very quiet and would be so lonely with Jack Daniels.
I try to stay busy. Fixing a few things in the house that need repair. Eat dinner with my sister & her family a lot. Go to town with her at least once a week. Go by myself with just Jack Daniels.

I haven't removed anything of his yet. Except the medical stuff. Had to get that out right away. But walkers and wheelchairs are still in the outside shed.


Jerry's son and his wife are coming to visit this weekend. Looking forward to seeing them again.


"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by foonermints on 08-11-17 at 11:16 AM
My girlfriend's ex husband is dying from cancer. She's moved back in with him to be his primary caregiver. Pretty tough all around! *sigh*
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by jbug on 08-11-17 at 03:09 PM
I'm so sorry Fooner.
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by kingfish on 08-11-17 at 03:12 PM
LAST EDITED ON 08-11-17 AT 07:18 PM (EST)

First, check with the doc to make sure this isn't an ex-husband's ploy.

(I know, I'm a cynical SOB).

Otherwise, I hope everything can come to a conclusion so that emotional healing can begin.

All the best, Fooner. And Junebug.

"Unfortunately .."
Posted by foonermints on 08-12-17 at 03:24 PM
Not a ploy. Poor guy's terminal in 6 -18 months. On the bright side, he wants to buy an exotic sports car, and he certainly can afford it. I said: Go for it!!
Me? A pauper..
But my AMEX is good for quite a lot..
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by cahaya on 08-12-17 at 09:00 PM
You're in our minds and hearts.

I'm still settling my late parents' estate. My dad passed early January, my mom late March, 75 days apart. I feel their absence and remember much more.

It's good to be with friends and family and take it a day at a time, no hurries.


agman's world

"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by jbug on 08-14-17 at 10:07 AM
Love and many hugs to you my friend.
My mother also passed in January. I tried to do a bit or organizing and clean up in her house (she had moved in with my sister a year before she passed0. Although I had been stopping in now and then to check on things, they were pretty much left just like when she moved out.
It's so hard to decide what to do.

Step son and his wife visited this weekend. He picked out a couple of his dad's wrist watches and some collectible knives. And one of his guitars. I sent some things to his sister too. I wanted them to get some of their dad's things to remember him by but honestly last night was difficult as I realized that some of his things were no longer here in the house with me! It was a first step and one that I didn't realize would affect me that way.

"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by cahaya on 08-14-17 at 10:04 PM
Yeah, it can be hard, takes you back down memory lane when you see everything.

My family and I have already taken what we wanted from my late parent's estate, not much really for ourselves. There's a work-of-love family album dating back to 1883 that my GGGGrandmother dedicated to her husband, some pics date back to Civil War, all in a leather binder in excellent condition, with fountain pen handwritten names under each pic, with a geneology and birthdates in notes in back. A family treasure.

The problem is what to do with all the rest of it, with my parents being hoarders. We took out 2 40-yard dumpsters of trash (old mags, ads, rusted electronics in the basement, etc). Already cleared out and sorted out all of the files and papers, 8 boxes worth. Now a houseful of furniture, decor, art, bric-a-brac, and a barn full of horse trailers, tractors, golf carts, ATVs (all two or more), along with an entire toolshop and enough lumber and tile, etc. to build a house.

I called one estate sale company who came out and they balked at the work and labor it would take to sell and clear it all. Still working on that part of it.

Main thing is to do it day by day, week by week, no rush and get pros (like auction company or estate sale company) to do the work you and your helper family/friends can't do on your own.

"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by foonermints on 08-18-17 at 11:09 AM
I saved all my girlfriend's slides and movies from her parent's house after they died, even though she didn't care about them. Guess what? She does now. Good thing, eh?
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by foonermints on 08-29-17 at 11:45 AM
"Can't"
Posted by foonermints on 08-22-17 at 12:59 PM
Leave jBug with the Spam!

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"RE: Can't"
Posted by jbug on 08-22-17 at 03:26 PM
Hi there sweetness.
Today is his 76 birthday. I miss him so much.


"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by PepeLePew13 on 08-29-17 at 02:31 AM
So sorry for your loss, Bug.


(I've been away all summer since June 30, so I'm just getting caught up on what's happening around here)

"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by jbug on 08-29-17 at 10:19 PM
Thank you Pepe
Hope all is well with you


"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by kingfish on 09-01-17 at 08:45 PM
Baby bump. We're pregnant.
"It's been a year."
Posted by jbug on 07-05-18 at 12:12 PM
It was a year on Tuesday the 3rd of July.
In some ways the year has flown by.....in other ways my life drags on day by day.
I've survived his birthday without him, the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays, my birthday and our anniversary. Life goes on

I miss him terribly. I would not wish him back in the condition that Parkinson's had him.
I rejoice that when I join him in Heaven, he will be whole again. No more sickness, no more pain.



"RE: It's been a year."
Posted by foonermints on 07-06-18 at 10:18 PM

"RE: It's been a year."
Posted by cahaya on 07-08-18 at 08:12 PM
You're a sweetheart. Take care and be well.
"RE: RIP: JBug's hubby."
Posted by Bebo on 07-20-18 at 10:32 AM
Sending my condolences and hugs.