okay, i've answered my own question!!! i couldn't find it on the official so site, but i found it somewhere else.
Originally aired: Monday April 3, 2006 on Syndicated
Lisa #1 returns to the Starting Over house and Rhonda tells her she will learn today if she is graduating. Rhonda asks Lisa to draw her after self portrait. At group Rhonda asks Lisa is she has been upfront about everything that happened during her time at home and Lisa realizes she has really found herself and that even if she doesn't graduate for SO she knows she has the means to be an independent person. Rhonda asks Lisa what she wants to hear from her and Lisa says "Lisa you're graduating." Rhonda pauses and smiles and says "Lisa you're graduating." All the women burst out with exictment and Rhonda and Lisa hug. Andy Paige comes to give Lisa her make over. Jodi meants with her nutrionalist and discuss why she hasn't lost weight. Jodi doesn't like the program she has been put on and wants to follow her own program. Iylana meets with Jodi and tells her she saw a side of Jodi she didn't like during the group excerise the day before and Jodi also realized that is not the kind of person she wants to be anymore. Later, while Lisa is getting her make-over Jill, Jessica and TJ come for Lisa's graduation. Jodi is in tears with Jill and tells her she doesn't want to be in the house anymore. The ladies all convene outside and Lisa comes out sporting a shorter do and new outfit. Rhonda is first to talk and tells all out Lisa's struggles in the house and we see some flashbacks. We also get to see when Rhonda surprised Lisa at her dinner party. Iylana is next to talk and gives a short speech. Dr. Stan discusses all the different people he has encountered in his practice but he has never counciled a forty year old women in a baby doll dress and he really thought is career was over. Jill speaks about the good times they had and hopes that they will be able to remain in contact and grow old together. Lisa receives her graduation gift a full dining room set and of course the Starting Over trophey.