LAST EDITED ON 06-28-06 AT 01:46 PM (EST)Her way of speaking doesn't bother me but the reason for being there is somewhat suspect to me. You don't look for privacy on a reality show, in fact you basically give it all away so you can be material for entertainment. That being said, I think the coach has missed the big issue. Jessica has control issues mixed in with her grief. Just about anyone losing a parent will mourn for a long time, and the circumstances of her loss make it even harder for a person. A good grief counselor would help. But her frustration over not being able to get the response from people including her father, that she wants when she wants it, is about control. The tragedy points out to everyone that we have a great deal less control over life than we imagine day to day, and for a person who has an excessive need for it this can be traumatic. But the crap they feed her, and the fact that they focus on the wrong things, sometimes seems abusive and down right iresponsible. All the houseguests are manipulated to a degree to make them entertaining and that Ilyana is just laughable and clownish in her approach. Her ego gets in the way of contributing anything substantial to anyone. She really is comical to me, and should be climbing out of a tiny car at the beginning of every show to complete the circus atmosphere she creates.