Hello to everyone. I'm new around these parts but I'm not new to the show. I've enjoyed reading your post for some time and decided to post today on Niambi.I don't want to seem judgemental but are we suppose to feel sorry for Niambi? She made most of her own problems. She made her bed but can't lay in it, well I'm sure she does with Situation Man but you know what I mean. How in the world can the house help her if she isn't willing to give up Situation Man? I can't feel for a woman who creates her own problems and doesn't seem to want to give it up but says I want help but won't help herself. Someone should tell her to come back when she gives Situation Man up. How can she better herself when she's degrading herself sharing a man who's not going to give up two stupid women. If I was a man I probably be the same way. Situation Man saying: I got two women who ain't going no where, who I know ain't going no where, so let them worry, I'm having fun, I don't have to choose.
I have self-esteem problems too but my self-esteem problems help me not to let anyone else back in my life again who's not going to treat me right. I know I'm good enough to have a man of my own. I don't have to share and be second best. I guess Niambi is one of those women who get all excited and feel special when a man shows them attention and since he has another woman I bet it makes her feel good to know that he's cheating on her with me. A woman with low self-esteem like Niambi feels good about something like stealing a prettier woman's man especially if someone like Niambi isn't very good-looking so it makes Niambi feel good that she's the "other woman" though she's not so pretty, it makes her feel good that she took Situation Man's attention off his prettier woman. But he's really playing her and cheating her. I can't feel sorry for the main woman either, she's playing the game too. But I tell you now, most men never leave their wives or their main girl.
It would have been so interesting if Niambi would have been in the Starting Over house second season with Towanda and Kim who had conflictions with the "other woman" type. Towanda and Kim came down hard on Sommer for being the other woman last season. You know they would have had it out with Niambi.
How do you all feel?