This one has such attitude. When Christina was messing with a married man she was a bad person but whats the difference in what Niambis been doing?? Trash is Trash!

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This comment has been made before and no one corrected it. The main difference here is that Situation Man is not married. He was in a relationship with another woman (girlfriend) before he met Niambi. And he continues both relationships at the present time.

But I agree with you - what's the difference? Someone in a relationship is someone in a relationship no matter how many ways you slice it. Niambi made a comment the other day that went something like this, "I would rather be the girl lied about than the girl that's lied to." She has also stated that she has confronted the other woman and made sure that she knew Situation Man was messing with her (Niambi).

Situation Man must something pretty special for either woman to stick around knowing that he's playing both of them.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own. Matthew 6:34

I thought he was a married man and that's why it was such a big deal.

I was pretty sure I heard her say he was in another relationship. But maybe somebody with tivo can check and set the record straight.

If he is married then he has a really large pair to agree to be taped talking to her on the phone on air.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own. Matthew 6:34

Didn't Iyanla say that his situation was that he was with another woman? Or did she that he was living with another woman...I can't remember. But I didn't get the impression that he was married to another woman.

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Well, that's what I thought I heard. I don't remember the 'M' word being out there at all. But then I'm old and feeble and don't always remember things accurately.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own. Matthew 6:34

>This comment has been made before
>and no one corrected it.
>The main difference here is
>that Situation Man is not
>married. He was in a
>relationship with another woman (girlfriend)
>before he met Niambi. And
>he continues both relationships at
>the present time.
>
>But I agree with you -
>what's the difference? Someone in
>a relationship is someone in
>a relationship no matter how
>many ways you slice it.
>Niambi made a comment the
>other day that went something
>like this, "I would rather
>be the girl lied about
>than the girl that's lied
>to." She has also stated
>that she has confronted the
>other woman and made sure
>that she knew Situation Man
>was messing with her (Niambi).
>
>
>Situation Man must something pretty special
>for either woman to stick
>around knowing that he's playing
>both of them.
>
>
>Therefore do not worry about
>tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry
>about itself.
>Each day has enough trouble of
>its own. Matthew 6:34
>

I agree totally. Whether he's married or not the fact remains he was involved with someone else when Niambi started her 'situation' with him. She should have told him to take care of unfinished business (if that's what he really WANTS to do) first and THEN give her a call and see where things go. Women need to stop being each other's worst nightmare.

I don't get how one could be with a guy that you know is in a "commited relationship" with another. One that he has made no effort to end either. I guess that shows you how little she values herself. Isn't that sad?

LAST EDITED ON 04-23-06 AT 12:26 PM (EST)

I wonder how much help she could possibly get from Iyanla. Iyanla had an affair with a married man for 5 years before he finally divorced and married her (they are now divorced, wow imagine that). Niambi should be Rhonda's client.

If the guy was living with someone else, that is not much different than being married. It's just minus the paper. A person who willing dates a guy who is in a relationship with another even though he is not leaving the other person, has zilch self-esteem or is in it for the money, IMO. What does Situation Man do for a living?

Right, wrong...? (it is wrong but) This guy is a jerk and he is NOT EVEN ATTRACTIVE!!! She's got some huge issues. Glad she's on the show. Hopefully a lot of women will learn that chasing someone else's jerk is the most pathetic thing ever.

Niambi is super talented as well as beautiful. If in fact she is settling for second best regarding her guy friend then that shows that she has issues. If she did however confront this guys other woman and she feels he is a keeper for whatever reasons than that is pretty much all she can do. To cling to him and wait for him to decide what he wants is plain wrong and a wee bit pathetic. She could have practically any man she wanted....what gives?? I guess we'll have to stay tuned.

But you know, it's all about that "sexual tension" she mentioned. Niambi hasn't learned the valuable lesson that a fantastic relationship is made up of much more stuff than "sexual tension."

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own. Matthew 6:34

I think she wants whatever she can't have. That she is addicted to the drama and wants to win rather than BE with the guy. I think IV is approaching it all wrong. Raise the bar so that he has to make a choice? Ok what if he makes it and chooses her? Then she's stuck with a guy she'll never trust because she knows he cheats in relationships! She will get bored of him and leave. She isn't ready for a committed relationship just the idea of it so she fights for this guy knowing she doesn't have to put up with him and she can get sympathy in her woes me about him. If she had any respect for herself she would have said from the start to him that if he ever is single THEN he can look her up, then if he got himself single he would be doing it out of respect and desire to be with her, but to put herself in the face of the other woman just to let her know she is her competition? There's something in that.

She is a beautiful, compassionate young woman with a lot going for her, I think IV should work on her self-esteem so that she would look for guys deserving of her instead of settling for seconds.

If he is living with another girl he is cheating with Niambi and he is a cheater. If he lived with Niambi he would cheat on her. A cheater is a cheater.
Niambi is in competition with the other woman and she does need help because her self-esteem is not where it should be or she wouldnt have this need for the drama. Iguana asked her if she was addicted to Mr. S. and I believe she is. She has too much going for her to settle for a jerk but women do it everyday and I did it too when I was young. I look back now and wonder why? but at the time I was addicted to the situation.

I agree.. that's what I said just said it differently. IV needs to work on her self-esteem, NOT have her make this guy to choose, he isn't worth it.

Exactly, having the guy choose is hardly building her self-esteem or teaching her self-worth. She needs to come to to the self-realization that she's worth more than sharing a man who wants more than one woman.