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"Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by Pooj on 04-22-06 at 02:37 AM
Why hasn't Jodi been admonished about her actions as Kim was by Rhonda for her comments at Kellie's graduation? Jodi makes EVERY SINGLE GROUP about herself no matter what the discussion is about. She interrupts people to give her own hard luck story about whatever subject is at hand, cries, snots, and always has to have someone holding her hand, rubbing her back, huggin', strokin', etc. Oooh, the visual is disgusting!

Did anyone notice on Friday's episode that she made sure she was seated in the middle of the couch during group? Guess she thought she might get some "LOVE" from some of her housemates!

Oh, I have got to stop or I'll be having nighmares!!!

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"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by sharnina on 04-22-06 at 02:48 AM
I agree with you that Jodi does tend to make things about herself. But the two situations are VASTLY different. In group the women are supposed to share their thoughts, feelings, opinions (good or bad) in order to talk about those things.

What Kim did was inappropriate for the setting. Like her or not, this was Kelly's night and Kim should have kept her mouth shut. I thought Rhonda did a good job telling her what would have been appropriate.

A group meeting is a place to air your grievances, a graduation ceremony is not.

Also, we should keep in mind that those ladies meet for a considerably longer time than what we see on a daily basis. We are seeing what the editors want us to see. Last week there was a focus on Jodi peeling away the mask so the editing was focused on what she was going through.


Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own. Matthew 6:34

"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by BeeBe on 04-22-06 at 02:56 AM
I guess I am in the minority but I don't think Kim should have kept her mouth shut, and I think Rhonda gave her pointers about how to express herself better in the future. But I do think that Jodi is an attention addict and tends to make every event about her, even the departures of other HGs like Bethany, whom she barely knew. She is a drama queen, and it bothers me even more than it would with other ladies in the House, because I think Jodi is smarter than all the whining and me-centeredness in which she indulges herself. I have waited for the life coaches to tell her to stop indulging herself that way, but they never seem to do it.
"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by Pooj on 04-22-06 at 04:04 AM
Jodi always seems to know the correct advice for everyone else no matter what their situation. I guess I am just sick, sick, sick of her. She gets on my last nerve! I do agree with you BeeBe that Rhonda was helpful to Kim and hopefully that sunk in.

Did Jodi shed any tears at Kellie's graduation? If she did I missed it.

"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by BeeBe on 04-22-06 at 04:18 AM
Isn't it funny Pooj? Jodi has cried when every other HG left and even when they have to part with the empty milk cartons - but not about Kelly! If that doesn't say something about Kelly's "appeal" - NOT - then nothin' does!
"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by beckettrep on 04-22-06 at 06:50 PM
LAST EDITED ON 04-22-06 AT 06:51 PM (EST)

And just WHAT is with the constant arm holding/snuggling Toadie does with whichever housemate she is seated closest to? She gives me the creeps.

"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by Juliejo on 04-23-06 at 11:03 AM
I agree Gag me with a spoon. She mostly snuggles with Christie and holds hands etc. There is something strange about Toadie. Besides being a drama queen who wants to be the center of attention. All those fake tears for Bethany and nothing for Kelly, she hated Kelly. They were at each others throats all the time. toadie was glad to see her go. I saw her squeeze her big butt in the middle of the sofa too. That is to make sure she stays up fornt and personel.
"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by petmama on 04-25-06 at 05:56 PM
>I agree Gag me with a
>spoon. She mostly snuggles
>with Christie and holds hands
>etc. There is something strange
>about Toadie. Besides being
>a drama queen who wants
>to be the center of
>attention. All those fake
>tears for Bethany and nothing
>for Kelly, she hated Kelly.
> They were at each
>others throats all the time.
> toadie was glad to
>see her go. I saw
>her squeeze her big butt
>in the middle of the
>sofa too. That is
>to make sure she stays
>up fornt and personel.

Jodi reminds me of that other infamous attention ho, Allison. Especially when, after Bethany left, Christie and Kelly were stroking and patting her. I'm just glad no one was rubbing her feet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by eire_heart74 on 04-23-06 at 12:05 PM
You have a really good point. They both do the same behavior but I think Jodi does do it in a more appropriate setting. Even if she does talk about herself in group, that is the "safe place" to do it in. Kim really needs to learn how to let stuff go. She was never going to have to see Kelly again. That wasn't the time or the place for it.

I do remember Deborah from season 2 getting yelled at by the mighty IV for comparing Sinea's blindness with her own life of being a widow. Yeah if you didn't see it. It's hard to describe because it was really pulled out of no where.

Jodi seems to be able to relate to everyone's problems.

"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by Pooj on 04-24-06 at 00:46 AM
You know what folks? It has just occurred to me that maybe Jodi is just feeling guilty about her abortion and is so jealous of any of the housemates that have children. What do you think? It's just hard to believe that after a few days she was so close to Bethany.

But she still gives me the creeps with her need to always having to be touched in some way by someone all the time.

"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by BeeBe on 04-24-06 at 00:57 AM
Not sure of that jealousy thing, since Kim has a kid and Lisa 2 had kids, and Jodi didn't seem jealous of them. I think she thought she was gonna come off the big hero taking care of Bethany and showing her the SO ropes like a "veteran," and was upset she didn't have the chance to do it. As for Kelly, who WOULD cry in their beer over her departure? She gave me the willies - spring loaded and ready to EXPLODE.
"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by NoahsHotMomma on 04-24-06 at 09:34 AM
"maybe Jodi is just feeling guilty about her abortion and is so jealous of any of the housemates that have children. What do you think? It's just hard to believe that after a few days she was so close to Bethany."

That makes me think - and it's still early on a Monday morning... Maybe she feels a "connection" that she has lost her baby and Bethany lost her baby. Mind you it was no where near the same circumstances but I could see how she might want to compare the two. ESPECIALLY since she tends to make everything relate to her.

Thinking of that acutally makes me quite upset. I hope that I'm wrong.

"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by sowhat on 04-24-06 at 11:01 AM
Jodi has been found guilty of wearing a mask so she is trying desperately to remove it and to her that means being vulnerable so of course she will be making more things about her and acting more 'friendly" with others. To Jodi that is being vulnerable. It's funny but seeing some people's responses to her vulnerability, and Allison's ha, you can't blame then for putting on a mask, now can you? Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by cronemoon on 04-26-06 at 08:03 PM
i would have thought some of the house guest would have felt
unsafe by having to give a massage to a blob..in payment for
not having any $$$$$ to pay their debts in a SO exercise....todays show was just
too gross for me... why do not the LC tell Jodi to BACK OFF !!!
i know they review the daily takes for things going on behind the coaches backs..

today was just so gross.. ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

=hurl=

"RE: Jodi's Admonishment?"
Posted by JustBNMe on 04-27-06 at 08:15 PM
Jodi does turn everything into something about her in one way or another. If a HG graduates she acts all distraught and makes it about how they are leaving HER, if someone shares a problem she has to top it or give the advice to draw attention to herself. She is very self centered and thinks she is a giver when she only gives to get attnetion. I also feel the LC's should have called her out on this a long time ago. Maybe now they are at the point where they figure what the heck and just want to get her the heck out of the SOH. I know I want to see her fat a$$ going out the door.