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"Marriage Without Pregnancy"
Estee 53782 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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01-30-13, 09:46 AM (EST)
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1. "As long as it applies to heterosexuals too. " |
So if you're female and can't carry or male without active sperm, you can't marry. If you're seniors who fall in love, you can't marry. If you're already married and suffer an injury which removes your ability to help conceive or carry, you are under immediate obligation to divorce. Sound fair?And by the way, this obligates teenagers to have lots and lots of unprotected sex. Not because many religions forbid use of birth control, but because it'll set them up perfectly and force them to get married! ...I could be reading this the wrong way, but... 
Next up: honeymoon suites, overbooking of. Hotels have no right to make money!
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AyaK 9876 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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01-30-13, 11:51 AM (EST)
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2. "RE: Marriage Without Pregnancy" |
LAST EDITED ON 01-30-13 AT 11:54 AM (EST)Actually, that's only a new tactic in Susan Estrich's mind. The idea that marriage is integrally linked to procreation has been at the center of all the legal arguments and court cases on gay marriage. Estrich, a Harvard Law grad, should know that, but maybe she was under deadline and out of ideas. What that argument addresses is that there ia a nondiscriminatory reason that states would choose to limit marriage to heterosexual couples -- because marriage provided a way to ameliorate the effects of unplanned pregnancy. The fact that some heterosexual couples are infertile is irrelevant; only heterosexual couples can have unplanned pregnancies. Thus, because there is a reason other than anti-homosexual animus that the state would choose to limit marriage to heterosexual couples, such a limitation on marriage is not illegal discrimination and should be permitted to stand. (However, the argument has no relevance to the question of whether DOMA should be permitted to stand, which is a federalism argument.) I can't say too much about this case because of my involvement in a related case, but I just want to say that, unlike Ms. Estrich's claim, I have NEVER seen a brief filed by the parties opposing gay marriage that claimed that "homosexuality is immoral." Do you know why? Because such an argument would be certain to lose. That doesn't mean that politicians haven't argued that (right, ex-Sen. Santorum?). But no court case has.
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bondt007 3318 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Car Show Celebrity"
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01-30-13, 05:09 PM (EST)
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10. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
Excellent suggestion… I’ll get a discount on guns that way.Certainly not six figures. But even five on the lower side is meaningful, what with all of the state (California) and federal taxes sucking me dry... And when you add the word "Wedding" on to anything, it's different pricing. "I'd like 200 cupcakes, please" "OK, that'll be $300" "They are for a wedding" "...I mean $1300..."
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AyaK 9876 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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01-30-13, 05:42 PM (EST)
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11. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
I told my daughters to elope.
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cahaya 18280 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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01-31-13, 02:35 AM (EST)
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14. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
LAST EDITED ON 01-31-13 AT 02:57 AM (EST)Marriage is about being partners in life with free expression of love for each other. Procreation is shared in marriage for those people who are capable of it and (we hope) who take care of the responsibilities that come with bringing new life into this world. Not always, though, is procreation desired between two people, one or both of whom are not ready to meet the responsibilities that come with it. Thus, birth control and legally defined abortions, even for those who might think that life begins with conception. Although procreation has long been associated with marriage, legally, socially and religiously, it is still only one facet of a lifetime partner commitment between two (and in some cultures, possibly more) people who wish to do so. And procreation does occur outside of marriage (for better or worse). Marriage and procreation are two completely different events, one marks a highly personal, legal, social and possibly religious milestone, while the other marks the event of a potential new life. Although my daughter is still only 8 years old, I think that I would advise her to follow both her heart and her mind, and where they don't agree, look more closely. When the time comes, it will be her life choice.
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AyaK 9876 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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01-31-13, 06:10 PM (EST)
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17. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
When my first wife and I married, we fully intended to have children. We found out two years into the marriage that, for reasons that I don't want to go into here, my wife was unable to have children. So, by your logic, should we have been given an automatic divorce at that time?If that's your argument, you can kiss the right of marital privacy (and, for that matter, Roe v. Wadee, which extended that concept to nonmarital opposite-sex relationships) goodbye.
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kidflash212 3556 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Thong Contest Judge"
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02-01-13, 02:21 PM (EST)
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25. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
And why should there be a distinction between planned and unplanned pregnancies? If the states interest is providing for support of children there is no reason to differentiate between the two.
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AyaK 9876 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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01-31-13, 09:20 PM (EST)
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21. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
LAST EDITED ON 01-31-13 AT 09:23 PM (EST)I always think of King David and Osama bin Laden as examples of the problems of polygamy. The Torah/Bible goes on at length in 2 Samuel about all the problems caused by David's many children prior to his death. For example, Ammon raping his half-sister Tamar and then being killed in revenge by her full brother Absalom, which made Absalom the popular choice as successor. Of course, David couldn't stand for that, and ultimately came an uprising, in which David eventually prevailed. That left David's son Adonijah as the clear successor. But Bathsheba, who became David's favorite wife, wanted her own son Solomon to be David's successor instead of Adonijah -- and she finally got her wish with David's dying command. Solomon was so grateful that, instead of being merciful to Adonijah as his mother urged, he instead put Adonijah to death. Nice guy. Wise? Not so much. We saw something similar play out with Osama bin Laden, who was one of at least 54 children that his father had between wives and mistresses, and we know how he turned out. So forgive me, but I'll leave the polygamy to other societies. We already have enough murders.
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AyaK 9876 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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02-01-13, 02:06 AM (EST)
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23. "RE: Hitler Ate Sugar." |
You didn't think I was seriously going to debate polygamy, did you?
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Estee 53782 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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02-01-13, 09:09 AM (EST)
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24. "RE: Hitler Ate Sugar." |
I wasn't expecting you to suggest it's a prerequisite for murder either.
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AyaK 9876 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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02-01-13, 06:49 PM (EST)
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27. "RE: Hitler Ate Sugar." |
Prerequisite? No, there are plenty of murders committed by non-polygamists as well.
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cahaya 18280 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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02-02-13, 01:13 AM (EST)
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32. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
Then, as Starshine would be glad (or not) to remind us, is the War of the Roses, Lancasters and Plantagenets, where England had no clear ruler of the throne.
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Estee 53782 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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02-04-13, 09:13 AM (EST)
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38. "RE: Coincidence!" |
How much did they charge him for parking?
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Estee 53782 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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02-04-13, 10:35 AM (EST)
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40. "RE: Coincidence!" |
I don't get it. If that happens in Manhattan, no one works around the vehicle. Someone picks the car up, throws it into the East River, and tells the driver to go fetch. And this is accepted as the price you pay for parking in that kind of spot -- unless you're from out of town, in which case, you retire to Kansas and spend the rest of your life voting against anyone who's ever been to a coast. But if you're a native, you know it's just what happens. And so is punching out the operator of the car flinger.In friendlier cases, should you park in a work zone or any area which is about to be used by the city's duly-paying triplicate filers -- studio shoots, street fairs, foot or bike races, politicians invading, and so on -- the city will not always tow your car to the impound yard. Sometimes they'll just tow it to the nearest open parking spot and leave it there. Without telling you. And if you get back and figure out what happened, your job is then to locate said nearest open parking spot. Which, given that you're in Manhattan, could be Hoboken. Scavenger hunt!
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AyaK 9876 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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02-05-13, 03:48 PM (EST)
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44. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
Kingmaker was one of the few Avalon-Hill games that I could stand.
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AyaK 9876 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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02-05-13, 03:45 PM (EST)
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43. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
>We can debate this point if you want to, but I think this is something we agree on.If your argument is that we view a family as a separate economic unit, akin to a partnership, then we agree. Looking at the Griswold case, I do agree with the courts regarding marital privacy, but I leave open the question of the rights of the father in terms of co-equal creation of a new life resulting in pregnancy. In simple ethics, it takes two to create one, and these two share equal decision-making responsibilty. How do you break a tie vote in this simple ethics case? Say equal decision-making participant #1 wants to keep the baby and equal decision-making participant #2 does not. Is there a default rule? Is there a tiebreaking procedure? Does the gender of equal decision-making participant #1 and #2 matter? Does fetal health matter?
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cahaya 18280 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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02-05-13, 04:24 PM (EST)
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45. "RE: abolish marriage now!" |
Yes on all counts. The court has decided that, all other things being equal, including the decision-making of both partners in creating a new life, the one who bears a new life within their bodily being assumes the greatest responsibility.
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dabo 24271 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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01-30-13, 08:44 PM (EST)
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12. "Shazam!" |
Jim Nabors gets married despite inability to irresponsibly procreate. Said Nabors, "I've never made a huge secret of it at all." No word mentioned about whether he would be changing his name to Cadwallader.
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